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Frank Santos's avatar

Very good reflection. I think about my children and how they have grown into productive adults. They were raised in the 50's and 60's where we taught respect and orderly behavior. Ever watch children today at the dinner table? They are up and about whenever they want. We used to see (in general) children at the table at any age stay seated and ask to be excused. I bring that up because it is a simple example of the basics of setting rules for children at the earliest ages and expect them to obey them. It's called respect and obedience to society's rules early in life. This way they have something to compare themselves versus today's children) who have the media as their standard (as you point out.) Lastly don't forget at any age to tell them everyday you love them and that you are always there for them. (Get's to be difficult with teenagers in all honesty but probably the most important time.)

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Askewnaut's avatar

i know what might help tho: maybe during the most psychologically and physically difficult and confusing time of life we should introduce the idea that the main thing that is happening to them has no clear meaning or definite outcome. it is no longer a given, it is a "choice" they have to make. and doctors and surgeons (but not their parents, lol, that would be interfering) are awaiting their decision.

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